5 Gifts to Get Your Wife, girlfriend, fiance (or Even Your Mom)

….That she will actually like. By Lori Spensieri Love. Valentine’s Day is all about Love. It began in the year 496 with the initiation of the special day dedicated to love. Click here to see our article all about love. One} Something of interest to her. Everyone has a passion. Think of something that gets you excited, makes the hairs on your arms stand up. This year, buy her a gift that is something that she has been wanting. Think about what she talks about. What does she watch on…

6 Things to Start Doing Today, to be the Happiest you Have Ever Been!

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There are 5 things that you can start doing today that will actually make you feel more joy and happiness. 1. Know exactly what you want. Step number one is to know what you want. If you do not know what you want, take some time to answer the following questions: What makes my heart skip a beat? In what do I have great skills? In what do other people say I have talent? What activity causes me to experience ‘flow’ or quick passing of time? To be thorogh ensuer…

10 Ways to Say “NO!”

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by Lori Spensieri **Disclaimer. There may be affiliate links within this article. This means that there may be advertisement links, when clicked and a purchase is made, I may attain a commission at no cost to the reader** Life is busy. We all have people to care for, tasks to complete, jobs to do and personal goals to work toward. It is not uncommon to find yourself being asked for help. Some very common requests from others include; A loan of money. To borrow something that you own (folding table,…

Fear. Is it Normal?

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By Lori Spensieri **Affiliate link disclosure. There are links in this post that may lead to me acquiring a small commision. There is no cost to you as the reader** Fear is supoosed to be a good thing. It is actually designed to keep us humans safe and out of harms way. If you try to touch fire, you get burned. This in turn causes you to have a fear of fire, which will keep you from touching fire again. Fear can be a direct teacher or an indirect controller.…

Want to start a Blog?

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5 steps to complete today if you are serious about starting a blog!! By Lori Speniseri ** There may be affiliate links in this blog. This means that if you use my link I may get a small commision ** Eh! Be Positive. When I started blogging I had no idea what I was doing. I had no idea what niche in which I would find myself. I did not even really know what a niche was. I did what most people did. I googled, “How to start a blog”.…

Lego is the Secret to Happiness! See why.

Lego is the key to happiness. Lego makes you happy. Lego is good for adults too

By Lori Spensieri **This article contains affiliate links. If you click on a link and you make a purchase, I may receive a small commissions. There is no cost to you. ** We are adults, indeed, but this is not a punishment. Being an adult is a reward for having endured all the trials and tribulations taht childhood and adolescents brings. Being silly and seeing thigns from a child’s point of view, now and then, can have tremendous benefits for our mental state. Here are the top 5 Children’s toys…

Links of London You Will Love

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By Lori Spensieri *Disclaimer – There are affiliate link in this article. This means that there are product links and if you click one I may get a commision from any potiential sales. It was 6 years ago. My little matthew was getting baptised. His future God-Mother was owed a gift. She had already been such a wonderful, supportive and loving aunt to Jacob, she was already the perfect person to be the God Mother. She knew exactly what she wanted; A Links of London bracelet. My husband went to…

The All New Nintendo Switch Lite!

It is the big ticket item of 2019. The New Nintendo Switch Lite is coming out very soon. It will be available in stores on September 20th. How do you ensure that you one!

A Little CBD Goes A Long Way…For Me

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By Lori Spensieri *This article contains affilitate links. My experience with social anxiety has been a mix of stages that are similar to that of mourning. I mourned my old life, the way I was before I became so crippled by my anxiety. I was constantly worried that people would not like me. Next, I became angry. Why was I experiencing this? I felt like Spiderman; when he gazes longingly at his peers having fun while he has to fight crime. The difference, I wasn’t fighting crime, I was just fighting…

Loneliness! A Startling New Epidemic, and what to do about it!

By Lori Spensieri Part 1 – All About Loneliness What is loneliness? Well, how does one define something that is so personal and subjective? Are some people simply destined to feel lonely for their entire lives? I have felt lonely on and off for my entire life. Check out my introspective book of poems that demonstate my perosnal¬†experience with feeling lilke i do not fit in anywhere, my diagnosis of social anxiety and my intense need to belong.¬† It started in high school. At some point in my third year…